★Day 07- What is the difference between love and lust?
★Day 08- Has a person of the same sex made a pass at you, and what was your reaction?

 

★Day 07- What is the difference between love and lust?

The difference between love and lust.

Lust is a state of mind. A real physical attraction followed by uncontrollable urges for another person. Its those crazy scenes in the movies where a girl is thrown up against the wall by a guy and they go completely at it. That attitude is more of a lust. Where it’s an uncontrolable attraction and then nothing more after that. Its raw, dirty, uncut and hardcore! Lust is basically a porno!

Love is an emotion. It’s a feeling that isn’t raw and gritty. Love is a fusion between two people that is bonded. Its not physical. Love can only be something you feel. It can’t be taken away as easily. It hurts, it’s painful, its happiness, its joy. Its being with someone you cannot be without no matter what.

 

★Day 08- Has a person of the same sex made a pass at you, and what was your reaction?

You know, I’m sure it has happened a few times since I had a very small streak of a wild side when I was 19 hitting up the clubs with my friends. But one in particular encounter I know of wasn’t so long ago. About two years ago.

I started having a suspicion that my friend was trying to hit on my husband {by the way, we had just gotten married a few months before} because she would stay with us and wear sexy lingerie around the house at night and I started not liking it so much.

The next night after one of these occurred where I questioned what really were the intentions, me and my hubby were asleep in our room and she was out in the living room. She came into the bedroom and woke us up to lay in bed with us. A little strange but I didn’t care since she was such a good friend at the time.

The next night, we partied a bit in the house after the baby was asleep. Just the three of us were drinking a bit and out on the balcony and me and her were wearing skimpy stuff. I was trying to be cute and sexy for the hubby. I was drunk yes. She then proceeds to touch my boobs and tell me how big they are and how she loved them. The she grabs my underware and starts spanking my ass and just puts her hands on me. Again, I wasn’t thinking anything was wrong since I was drunk. I was liking the attention and thought it was just a joke and fun.

A few weeks later, we had the biggest fight of our friendship which broke it off and she started to tell me how she wasn’t trying to hit on my hubby. She was in love with me. Yea, it was pretty crazy because she was trying to get me and him to fight to break us up so she could have me. We have not been friends since because she started to become really psycho after that and obsessive.